4、《致勝之道》

吉姆?羅爾

????假如你最終所追求的完全只是個(gè)人榮耀，那么實(shí)現(xiàn)偉大目標(biāo)不會(huì)令你更快樂。然而，我們的個(gè)人主義文化誘使許多人掉進(jìn)了這個(gè)陷阱。這本書是我數(shù)年來看到的對(duì)自尊運(yùn)動(dòng)的最好控訴。作者羅爾是一位曾指導(dǎo)過從網(wǎng)球傳奇人物安德烈?阿加西到精英高管等人中龍鳳的心理學(xué)家。他在書中闡述了如何培養(yǎng)促成重大成就的自制力、紀(jì)律性以及性格。

4.The Only Way to Win

By Jim Loehr

????Attaining big goals won't make you happier if all you're ultimately pursuing is personal glory. Yet our individualist culture lures many of us into that trap. In the best indictment of the self-esteem movement I've read in years, Loehr, a psychologist who has coached top performers, from tennis legend Andre Agassi to elite execs, shows how to build the self-control, discipline, and character that drive meaningful achievement.